Making a guy fall for you doesn't have to involve pick-up lines or clever chatter. Experts say thatbody language is more powerful than words, and these flirting tricks will turn you into a (silent) assassin!
Don't make a move
There's a lot of mixed advice going around about being the one to approach a guy. And while confidence is sexy, in a social scenario, it is best to let a guy make the first move. A recent study found that a guy is more likely to go out with a woman if he's the one who approaches her, rather than vice versa. That doesn't mean you have to just wait around for him to come overthere are other tricks below that'll help push things along.
Smile smart
Perfect your come-hither look. Tilt your head slightly down and to the side, then look up from under your lashes and smile. This pose shows guys it's okay to approach.
Look sensual
Slightly slow down all your gesturescross and uncross your legs slowly, stroke your neck deliberately, or lazily fix your hair.
Divide and rule
Men tend to be intimidated by a pack of girls, so hit up a bar with just two friends. If you see a guy you like, pull away slightly from your pals and scan the room. When your eyes fall on your target, holdeye contact for a few seconds to let him know you've noticed him.
Get into flirt mode
"Make the most of body language, says Violet Blue, author of Total Flirt. Your body sends out messages you may not even consciously know, and even minor adjustments can change how men perceive you. Which is why it's important to turn on your Flirt Mode when out. To do, pull your shoulders back and take a deep breath, imagining your breath pulling your chest wider and pulling the centre of your chest up towards the ceiling. Straighten your back and arch the lower back slightly (a good way to do this, and also make your legs look longer and butt more attractive, is to wear heels). "When you make your Flirt Mode stance, you're going to project an aura of confidence and happiness, says Violet.
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