Talk through the hand
While at a bar, casually set your hand on your knee so your palm faces up or lay the back of your hand on a table. This pose lets him know that you're approachable and 'safe'.
Do the walk
Just smile
You might think pouting is sexy, but new research suggests that men find moody looking women a turn-off. The easiest way to disarm, relax, and intrigue a guy is with a smile. "It sounds simple, but when you're flirting, a smile is an instant relaxer, and makes guys curious about what you're smiling about, says Violet. A smile also gives the unconscious impression that you have a great sense of humour, you're approachable, and being around you is indicative of a good time. And if you are pouting, make it guyfriendly the sexiest pout is when you relax your mouth and allow your bottom lip to drop slightly open so he can see a bit of white teeth.
Location is everything
When it comes to flirting atmospheres, not all places are born equal. Mild to moderate conditions are best, explains Violet. "Daytime parties, casual cocktails, weddings, art galleries, cafes, dinner parties, industry or business-related meets, conferences, reunions, and in classrooms are great to meet men, she says.
Lower your voice
According to research, when a woman likes a guy, she unconsciously lowers her voice, making it huskier and breathier which guys find insanely sexy. So to let a guy know you're interested, lower your voice a couple of notches. It'll instantly put him in a more seductive mindset.
Bat those lashes
Did you know that when you like someone, you automatically blink more than usual? Up your blink rate and see if he does the same. If he does, you can safely assume he's interested in you, too. Just don't overdo it.
Soft smile
Make smouldering eye contact, head tipped slightly forward, using your soft smile. Maintain rivetingeye contact and smile wide, keeping lips together. Now he is putty in your hands, says author of the book Total Flirt, Violet Blue.
Get a fringe
You know the adage, 'The eyes are the windows to the soul'? It's true! "Your retinas are actually the only visible part of your brain, says David Givens, Ph.D., author of Love Signals. "Peering into someone's eyes is literally like seeing into the mind itself. So, letting your hair fall slightly over your eyesobscuring emotions telegraphed through eye contactis coy and alluring.
Do a twinkle
There's a reason why a twinkle in the eye is so attractive shiny eyes send a cue that you're a lively, vibrant person. While you can't really force your eyes to sparkle, you can create a similar effect with make-up. First, use eye-drops to tackle any redness, then apply a light, shimmery eyeshadow on lids. Line eyes ('wing' them at the edges for a sexy, feline look), then dab highlighter onto brow bones and blend. Highlight the inner corners and bottom rims of eyes with a light, shimmery pencil (this really opens them up), and finish with mascara.
Position it
According to Violet, where you're situated in a room is important. "Stand, don't sit, with your shoulders straight and hip cocked, she says. "Try not to be separated by more than two people, and keep your face slightly away from him: this will make your signaling powerful.
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